Constructive Conflict
The R.E.L.A.T.E. Framework™ gives leaders and teams a practical process for navigating disagreement, communicating clearly, and moving toward accountability and repair.
Healthy relationships at home, at work and in leadership.
Executives, pastors, board chairs, and other public-facing leaders often carry relationship challenges they cannot comfortably bring to HR, a staff meeting, or the public eye. I offer a private, one-on-one space to work through what is not working, grounded in more than twenty years of hands-on experience helping people strengthen communication, boundaries, accountability, and connection.
I grew up in Chattanooga, Tennessee, watching women in my own family struggle through relationships that hurt them. I decided early on to do something about it. That decision took me through field research at Michigan State, a master's in Social Service Administration from the University of Chicago, and two decades working directly with individuals and families navigating relationship struggles as a case manager, domestic violence prevention advocate, and program administrator.
After eleven years at Partnership Against Domestic Violence in Atlanta, including four as President & CEO, I made the decision in 2026 to step away and build this practice on my own. It wasn't an easy call to leave an organization I'd given over a decade to. The work I care most about involves sitting with someone one-on-one, without a case file or an agency between us. That work needed room I couldn't give it from inside a CEO role. Everything I offer here grew directly out of what I built there: shelter and housing programs serving hundreds of families a year, and a $6 million campaign that gave the organization a permanent home.
I'm a Licensed Master Social Worker and the author of two books on building healthier relationships, including one published under the pen name Coach Dean Black. I have been featured on NPR and radio and have spoken at conferences nationwide.
Discreet, experience-based guidance, whether the "organization" in question is a marriage or a nonprofit board.
For executives, pastors, board chairs, and other public-facing leaders who are working through relationship challenges at home or at work that they can't risk bringing to HR, a public program, or their own staff.
For founders and boards navigating the same growing pains I worked through as President & CEO of Partnership Against Domestic Violence, including departmental budgets, board relations, and a $6 million capital campaign.
For leaders who'd rather commit to a package than book session-by-session.
Katha brings more than twenty years of social work, executive leadership, and survivor-centered experience to conferences, professional-development programs, leadership retreats, and community events.
The R.E.L.A.T.E. Framework™ gives leaders and teams a practical process for navigating disagreement, communicating clearly, and moving toward accountability and repair.
Interactive sessions help executives, nonprofit leaders, boards, and teams examine communication, trust, boundaries, workplace relationships, and mission-centered leadership.
Trauma-informed workshops explore survivor experiences, ethical practice, shelter and housing systems, and the complexities professionals must understand when supporting people after abuse.
Written from years of hands-on experience as a case manager and domestic violence prevention advocate, so the advice comes from what actually works, not theory.
Drawing on years of experience helping women recognize unhealthy relationship patterns, this book names the early warning signs before a relationship heading in the wrong direction hardens into something dangerous.
Written for men, this book lays out a direct path for breaking cycles of conflict and building a household rooted in calm, safety, and respect before the damage becomes irreversible.
Honest conversation hosted by Katha Blackwell for anyone rebuilding a life after an unhealthy relationship.
Also find the show at rss.com/podcasts/letitgo.
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